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A compelling vision and a well-aligned strategy are only as powerful as the actions taken to bring them to life. This article in the Transformational Leadership Series moves us from agreement to execution and measurement with two vital skills:

  • Skill 45 – Implementation Planning
  • Skill 46 – Assessing Team Performance

Skill 45 – Implementation Planning

Definition
The skill of designing and implementing effective steps, timelines, tasks, deliverables, measures, and responsibilities in a clearly documented plan necessary to achieve your stated objectives and goals.

Why it matters

  • Plans reduce ambiguity. Teams operate with clarity and purpose.
  • Execution drives credibility. A great strategy without action is just a wish.
  • Planning increases success rates. It ensures nothing critical falls through the cracks.

How to implement

  1. Break down each strategy into concrete objectives and key results.
  2. Assign clear ownership to each action item—no shared accountability.
  3. Set deadlines and milestones. Ensure time-bound checkpoints for progress.
  4. Include resources and support. Who or what is needed to succeed?
  5. Build in feedback loops. Regularly assess, adapt, and improve.

Practice Activity – Build a 90-Day Action Plan

Have your team choose one key strategic objective. Together, build a 90-day implementation plan with assigned tasks, deadlines, success metrics, and responsible individuals. Review and adjust weekly.

Skill 46 – Assessing Team Performance

Definition
The ability to systematically review, evaluate, measure, and report the effectiveness of team performance and teamwork on strategic initiatives—both short- and long-term.

Why it matters

  • Measurement reveals progress and pitfalls. You can’t improve what you don’t track.
  • It fosters a culture of accountability. People perform better when expectations and results are clear.
  • Teams evolve. Regular assessments ensure you stay aligned and adapt effectively.

How to implement

  1. Establish clear performance indicators aligned with the mission and goals.
  2. Use multiple sources of input. Include self-assessments, peer feedback, and outcome-based metrics.
  3. Create regular review intervals. Monthly or quarterly assessments keep momentum alive.
  4. Facilitate open reflection. Ask: What’s working? What needs to change?
  5. Celebrate wins and course-correct where needed.

Practice Tool – Team Performance Dashboard

Develop a shared dashboard tracking KPIs such as project delivery, collaboration scores, innovation metrics, and goal completion. Review it together at the start of each team meeting.

Planning + Measurement = Sustained Performance

Skill 45 – Implementation Planning

Converts vision into steps

Aligns actions with strategy

Enables clear accountability

Builds momentum

Skill 46 – Assessing Team Performance

Gauges success and team health

Encourages continuous improvement

Strengthens cohesion and trust

Reinforces learning and adaptability

Transformational leaders do more than launch great ideas—they steward them to completion. These two skills equip you to build strong bridges from intention to impact.

Next up in the series: Skills 47 & 48 – Leading Continuous Learning and Installing Accountability Systems. We’ll look at how to sustain growth and ownership at both the individual and team level.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

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Transformational Leadership Series Section Four: Team & Consulting Skills Direction and Unity Skills 43 & 44 – Facilitating Consensus on Mission, Vision & Purpose and Strategy Consensus Building https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-section-four-team-consulting-skills-direction-and-unity-skills-43-44-facilitating-consensus-on-mission-vision-purpose-and-strategy-consensus-buildi/ Mon, 15 Sep 2025 18:59:23 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=24118 At the core of every high-performing organization is clarity of purpose and alignment of strategy. Without these, teams drift, decisions splinter, and energy scatters. In this article, we explore two skills that help leaders create both the “why” and the “how” that guide every action: Skill 43 – Facilitate Consensus on Mission, Vision & Purpose Skill 44 – […]

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At the core of every high-performing organization is clarity of purpose and alignment of strategy. Without these, teams drift, decisions splinter, and energy scatters. In this article, we explore two skills that help leaders create both the “why” and the “how” that guide every action:

  • Skill 43 – Facilitate Consensus on Mission, Vision & Purpose
  • Skill 44 – Facilitate Strategy Consensus Building

Skill 43 – Facilitate Consensus on Mission, Vision & Purpose

Definition
The skill of developing and facilitating agreement among stakeholders regarding the team and organization’s missionvision, and purpose—ensuring there is a shared understanding and buy-in on a compelling “big picture.”

Why it matters

  • Alignment fuels acceleration. When everyone understands where they’re going and why, decisions become easier and faster.
  • Purpose inspires ownership. People commit more deeply to what they help co-create.
  • Consensus builds trust. Inviting input fosters engagement and reduces resistance to change.

How to implement

  1. Facilitate a workshop with team members to explore:
    • Mission: Why do we exist?
    • Vision: Where are we going?
    • Purpose: What difference are we here to make?
  2. Capture real language. Avoid jargon. Use words that resonate with the team.
  3. Test for understanding. Ask, “Can each member describe this in their own words?”
  4. Document and display the final version prominently.
  5. Integrate into daily life. Use the mission/vision/purpose to guide decisions and feedback.

Practice Activity – Alignment Circle

Divide your team into small groups. Ask each to create a one-sentence version of the team’s mission, vision, and purpose. Compare drafts, discuss differences, and co-create a unified version together.

Skill 44 – Facilitate Strategy Consensus Building

Definition
The ability to facilitate consensus with stakeholders regarding specific strategies and action plans, providing a blueprint to achieve the team and organizational vision.

Why it matters

  • Strategy is the bridge from vision to execution. Without agreement on how to get there, even the best vision falters.
  • Shared strategy creates focus. Teams stay on course and avoid fragmented efforts.
  • Consensus reduces friction. Decisions are implemented with fewer roadblocks and more energy.

How to implement

  1. Clarify the end goal. Reaffirm the shared mission and vision.
  2. Identify strategic priorities. What 3–5 focus areas will move the needle most?
  3. Facilitate open dialogue. Encourage honest debate on risks, resources, and impact.
  4. Narrow down options collaboratively. Use dot voting, prioritization matrices, or structured discussion.
  5. Confirm commitments. Ensure clear ownership of each strategy component.

Authors Note: Consensus does not mean that everyone or 100% of the team members will be in agreement. Even agreeing to disagree is part of the consensus process. However, it does mean that the team members at least will go along with the majority and agree to not sabotage the teams direction or the execution of the plans.

Practice Tool – Strategy Mapping Session

Create a large visual map with the vision at the top and key strategies branching underneath. Include who owns what and the first steps required. Review this map in every planning meeting. There are many online tools or apps that can help you with this today.

From Ideals to Implementation

Skill 43 – Mission, Vision & Purpose

Sets the direction and meaning

Aligns identity and intention

Inspires hearts and minds

Builds team cohesion

Skill 44 – Strategy Consensus Building

Defines the roadmap and action steps

Aligns resources and execution

Focuses energy and effort

Enhances accountability and clarity

These skills transform passive compliance into active commitment. Leaders who master this level of facilitation ignite both momentum and meaning within their teams.

Next in the series: Skills 45 & 46—Implementation Planning and Assessing Team Performance. These move us from agreement to execution and measurement—turning intention into tangible results.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

 

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Transformational Leadership Series Section Four: Team & Consulting Skills Readiness and Resonance Skills 41 & 42 – Change Willingness & Readiness and Facilitating Team Spirit & Values Alignment https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-section-four-team-consulting-skills-readiness-and-resonance-skills-41-42-change-willingness-readiness-and-facilitating-team-spirit-values-alignmen/ Mon, 15 Sep 2025 18:57:34 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=24115 When organizations change, not everyone moves at the same pace. Some race ahead, while others dig in. Some align with energy and trust; others drift in confusion. That’s why transformational leadership requires more than process—it demands emotional insight and cultural clarity. In this article, we explore two pivotal competencies: Skill 41 – Change Willingness & Readiness […]

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When organizations change, not everyone moves at the same pace. Some race ahead, while others dig in. Some align with energy and trust; others drift in confusion. That’s why transformational leadership requires more than process—it demands emotional insight and cultural clarity.

In this article, we explore two pivotal competencies:

  • Skill 41 – Change Willingness & Readiness
  • Skill 42 – Facilitate Team Spirit and Values Alignment

Skill 41 – Change Willingness & Readiness

Definition
The skill of exploring and assessing the willingness (attitude) and readiness (ability) for change within individuals and groups—identifying the real obstacles behind resistance and developing strategies to overcome them.

Why it matters

  • You can’t coach what you don’t diagnose. Change stalls when leaders push action before uncovering emotional or practical resistance.
  • Willingness ≠ readiness. Someone may agree with change in theory but lack time, skills, or clarity to engage.
  • Customized support is key. Blanket messages miss the nuances that unlock movement.

How to implement

  1. Assess both mindset and capacity. Use informal conversations, listening sessions, or pulse surveys.
  2. Watch for invisible blockers. Stress, fatigue, personality or job fit, interests, gift, talents and passions are often unspoken but deeply influential.
  3. Skills Identification. Readiness is a person’s ability to implement or fulfill what is being asked of them. Is there any training, proof or evidence that an individual has the skill (readiness) to be successful? If not how do you know they are ready? You don’t!
  4. Offer skill-building. Ensure readiness includes training, mentoring, and time to learn.

Authors note: Willingness and readiness is over looked by many if not most organizations. You promote someone to be a site supervisor or an office manager but they have never lead others. Or the sales rep is now the sales manager or the officer is promoted to sergeant – this many times ends badly. Or someone who is capable (ready) but dislikes the role or not a personality fit for the position (willingness) is not taken into account.

Reference Resource

In Why Aren’t You More Like Me? by Dr. Ken Keis, we explore how Personal Style influences individual reactions to change. High-structure styles may crave control and stability. High-interactive styles may resist change that affects relationships. Understanding style equips leaders to meet people where they are.

Practice Exercise – Change Barriers Map

Ask your team to list:

  • 3 reasons they’re willing to change
  • 3 factors that make them feel unready
    Group the responses into themes. Then co-create actions to address readiness gaps.

Skill 42 – Facilitate Team Spirit and Values Alignment

Definition
The ability to explore and foster a sense of team spirit and synergy by aligning team members’ values, fostering a positive and collaborative team culture—and upholding shared values as behavioral standards.

Why it matters

  • Shared values build trust. Teams with alignment in values resolve conflict faster and support one another more consistently.
  • Team spirit energizes performance. Positive peer dynamics boost productivity, resilience, and retention.
  • Clarity reduces confusion. Values alignment becomes a compass in times of pressure and change.

How to implement

  1. Host a team values session. Ask: “What values define who we want to be together?” Use CRG’s Team Values Indicator to not only identify the core values but how well you are fulfilling them.
  2. Use stories, not slogans. Invite examples of team moments that reflect core values.
  3. Translate values into behaviors. Define what each value looks like in action.
  4. Celebrate culture carriers. Recognize team members who model the values.
  5. Call out misalignment early. Don’t allow poor behavior to erode what the team has built.

Practice Activity – Team Culture Canvas

Have the team co-create a visual board with:

  • Top 5 team values
  • Sample behaviors that reflect each value
  • What to do when values are violated
    Post the canvas where the team meets regularly. Update it quarterly.

Harmony Before Momentum

Skill 41 – Change Willingness & Readiness

Understand internal motivation

Remove psychological and practical blocks

Segment support strategies

Promote commitment, not just compliance

Skill 42 – Team Spirit & Values Alignment

Build external unity

Create shared standards of behavior

Anchor identity and purpose

Foster belonging and positive peer influence

Change leadership is not just about processes—it’s about people. These two skills equip you to lead both hearts and habits.

Next in the series: Skills 43 & 44—Facilitating Consensus on Mission, Vision & Purpose and Strategy Consensus Building. These are the foundational skills that set direction and fuel commitment at every level.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

 

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Transformational Leadership Series Section Four: Team & Consulting Skills Guiding People Through the Unknown Skills 39 & 40 – Change Management Facilitation & Change Communication https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-section-four-team-consulting-skills-guiding-people-through-the-unknown-skills-39-40-change-management-facilitation-change-communication/ Tue, 02 Sep 2025 15:26:36 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=24064 Change is no longer an event—it’s a permanent reality. Whether you’re rolling out a new system, restructuring a department, or redefining culture, people will feel the stretch between the comfort of “what was” and the uncertainty of “what’s next.” Transformational leaders don’t just mandate change; they facilitate and communicate it so teams move from anxiety to engagement. This article […]

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Change is no longer an event—it’s a permanent reality. Whether you’re rolling out a new system, restructuring a department, or redefining culture, people will feel the stretch between the comfort of “what was” and the uncertainty of “what’s next.” Transformational leaders don’t just mandate change; they facilitate and communicate it so teams move from anxiety to engagement.

This article dives into the twin competencies that make change stick:

  • Skill 39 – Change Management Facilitation
  • Skill 40 – Change Communication

Skill 39 – Change Management Facilitation

Definition
The ability to raise awareness of needed changes, clearly articulate desired outcomes (benefits and downsides), and help people move out of their comfort zones into purposeful action.

Why it matters

  • Resistance is natural. Facilitation turns resistance into dialogue and ownership.
  • Unmanaged change fails. Industry studies show ~70 % of change initiatives miss their targets, largely due to people factors.
  • Engaged teams adapt faster. When employees help shape the journey, commitment replaces compliance.

How to implement

  1. Paint the “Why.” Link change to mission, vision, values, and market realities.
  2. Co-create the “How.” Involve representatives from all affected groups to design solutions and timelines.
  3. Surface concerns early. Use listening circles, pulse surveys, or informal assessments (Skill 37) to hear fears and ideas.
  4. Chunk the journey. Break big shifts into phases with visible milestones and quick wins.
  5. Celebrate progress. Recognize teams and individuals who model adaptability.

Practice activity – Change Readiness Workshop

Facilitate a 60-minute session with your team:

  • Step 1 – Present the “Case for Change” in 5 minutes.
  • Step 2 – Small-group brainstorm: “What excites you?” / “What worries you?”
  • Step 3 – Collect themes, discuss mitigations, and nominate change champions. Debrief: What readiness level did you observe? Where will you focus support?

Skill 40 – Change Communication

Definition
The ability to convey the need for change clearly and repeatedly—using audience-appropriate language so people understand, remember, and accept the message.

Why it matters

  • Clarity reduces fear. Ambiguity fuels gossip and resistance.
  • Repetition builds confidence. People need to hear key messages multiple times, through multiple channels.
  • Tone sets the culture. Hopeful, transparent language invites engagement; jargon or spin erodes trust.

How to implement

  1. Craft a core narrative—three parts: What’s changing, Why it matters, How we’ll succeed together.
  2. Tailor to stakeholders. Execs need strategic impact; frontline staff need day-to-day implications.
  3. Use multiple platforms. Town halls, team huddles, email briefs, collaboration tools, one-on-ones.
  4. Keep feedback loops open. Encourage questions and publish answers visibly.
  5. Model the message. Let your actions and priorities reinforce your words.

Exercise – 3-Minute Change Pitch

Write and rehearse a concise message:

Sentence 1: Here’s what’s changing.
Sentence 2: Here’s why this matters to our mission and to you.
Sentence 3: Here’s what happens next and how we’ll support you.

Deliver it to a colleague; ask for candid feedback on clarity and tone.

Synergy in Action

Facilitation (Skill 39)

Engages hearts & minds

Surfaces barriers

Builds shared ownership

Adjusts the roadmap

Communication (Skill 40)

Keeps everyone informed

Reduces rumors & confusion

Reinforces purpose & progress

Maintains momentum

When change stalls, ask: Do people understand the why? Were they invited into the how? Master these two skills and you’ll lead teams that not only survive change but harness it for innovation and growth.

Next in the series: Skills 41 & 42—Change Willingness & Readiness and Facilitating Team Spirit & Values Alignment.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

 

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Transformational Leadership Series – Section Four: Team & Consulting Skills Understanding What’s Really Going On Skills 37 & 38 – Informal and Formal Assessment https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-section-four-team-consulting-skills-understanding-whats-really-going-on-skills-37-38-informal-and-formal-assessment/ Tue, 26 Aug 2025 15:58:26 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=24041 Before a leader can guide a team, solve a problem, or launch a new initiative, they must first understand the landscape. Assessment—both casual and structured—is foundational to strong team and organizational leadership. In this article, we explore two essential diagnostic skills: Informal Assessment – uncovering insights through everyday conversations and observation. Formal Assessment – gathering reliable data […]

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Before a leader can guide a team, solve a problem, or launch a new initiative, they must first understand the landscape. Assessment—both casual and structured—is foundational to strong team and organizational leadership.

In this article, we explore two essential diagnostic skills:

  • Informal Assessment – uncovering insights through everyday conversations and observation.
  • Formal Assessment – gathering reliable data through structured tools and systems.

Skill 37 – Informal Assessment

Definition: The practice of engaging in casual, open communications—one-on-one and in teams—to understand their experiences, concerns, fears, opportunities, and ideas. This skill requires being approachable and creating space for honest dialogue.

Why it matters

  • Teams are constantly communicating—whether you listen or not.
  • You’ll learn more in a hallway chat or coffee break than in a meeting.
  • Informal assessments build trust, reveal undercurrents, and help you stay ahead of issues.

How to implement

  1. Be available and present. Create unstructured time to simply connect.
  2. Use curiosity, not interrogation. Ask questions like:
    • “What’s working well for you right now?”
    • “What’s something we could improve?”
    • “What do you wish leadership knew?”
  3. Read the room. Pay attention to body language, tone, and group dynamics.
  4. Take notes—but don’t make it formal. Capture insights to follow up later.

Practice activity

Pick one day this week to walk through your department or team space just to connect. Initiate three brief conversations with no agenda other than to ask how things are going. Afterward, reflect: What did you learn that surprised you?

Skill 38 – Formal Assessment

Definition: Conducting systematic, structured research through interviews, surveys, diagnostic assessments, or focus groups to gather actionable data to improve individuals, teams, or the organization.

Why it matters

  • Data drives clarity, and clarity drives solutions.
  • Formal tools help cut through bias, assumptions, and surface-level talk.
  • Leaders can only lead well with accurate, real-world feedback.

How to implement

  1. Choose the right method for the question.
    • Survey for broad trends
    • Interviews for depth
    • Focus groups for collaboration
    • Assessments for benchmarked insight
  2. Ensure anonymity where needed. This encourages honest responses.
  3. Use validated tools. At CRG, our suite of assessments (e.g., the Leadership Skills InventoryValues Preference IndicatorTeam Values IndicatorPersonal Style Indicator) provides high-value insights for individuals and teams.
  4. Analyze and communicate findings. Make results easy to understand and actionable.

Exercise – Mini Audit

Choose one team, department, or project. Ask yourself:

  • What do I know to be true based on evidence?
  • What am I assuming?
  • What would I want to learn through a formal tool?

Now, design three questions you could include in a team pulse survey or informal interview—and try them out.

The Assessment Advantage

Informal and formal assessments don’t compete—they complement each other.

  • One builds culture.
  • The other builds clarity.
    Together, they give you the whole picture—and that’s where transformational leadership begins.

Authors Note:

One of our consulting clients was an automotive dealership where the owner was frustrated with his sales teams lack of follow-up. After doing an investigation we discovered that doing follow-up calls was nearly impossible as the owner had only one outbound phone line – as he was saving money on costs. It was only after doing an assessment did we confirm the root cause of the behaviors – which was not enough resources to fulfill his expectations.

Coming next: Skills 39 & 40—Facilitating Change and Communicating Change.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

PS. Stay tuned to your opportunity to pre-register for the Online Transformational Leadership Course. That link will be available soon. To bench your (or others) leadership skills, access our Leadership Skills Inventory-Self or LSI-360′.

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Transformational Leadership Series Timely Truth and Knowing When to Step Aside Skills 35 & 36 – Immediacy & Referral https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-timely-truth-and-knowing-when-to-step-aside-skills-35-36-immediacy-referral/ Mon, 18 Aug 2025 17:32:13 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=24004 In coaching and leadership, timing and boundaries are everything. Knowing when to speak up and when to bring in external support can be the difference between progress and stagnation—or even harm. These next two skills build your discernment and leadership maturity: Immediacy – naming what’s happening right now in the room. Referral – recognizing when an issue exceeds your […]

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In coaching and leadership, timing and boundaries are everything. Knowing when to speak up and when to bring in external support can be the difference between progress and stagnation—or even harm.

These next two skills build your discernment and leadership maturity:

  • Immediacy – naming what’s happening right now in the room.
  • Referral – recognizing when an issue exceeds your expertise and connecting the person to a more qualified helper.

Skill 35 – Immediacy

Definition: Helping others get unstuck by pointing out, promptly and constructively, the problem behaviours or emotional dynamics that are hindering progress—especially those happening in the moment.

Why it matters

  • Stuck conversations often stem from unspoken tension.
  • Growth happens faster when issues are addressed in real-time.
  • Ignoring visible resistance, conflict, or discomfort undermines your leadership credibility.

How to implement

  1. Observe the moment: “I notice there’s a shift in your energy as we discuss this…”
  2. Name the behaviour without blame: “You’ve gone silent—can we talk about that?”
  3. Invite engagement: “What’s going on for you right now?”
  4. Hold space: Stay present and listen deeply.
  5. Move forward together: “How do you want to proceed from here?”

Practice exercise

In your next leadership conversation, try naming a subtle dynamic you observe in the moment (tone shift, body language, sudden resistance). Reflect afterward: What happened? Did naming it help?

Authors Note: This skill is about the leader being timely. I recall a supervisory waiting 2 weeks to provide feedback about a negative customer interaction. The employee has little recollection of the event so feedback at this stage is too late to be effective. We personally had a staff member who had conduct we did not appreciate but it took me 3 weeks to have enough courage to confront the team member. Again too late.

Skill 36 – Referral

Definition: The ability to recognize when a person needs professional help beyond your role or expertise—and facilitating an effective referral.

Why it matters

  • Not all problems are coaching or leadership problems.
  • Emotional, psychological, or legal issues require trained specialists.
  • Making referrals builds trust, protects the individual, and keeps you in your lane.

When to refer

  • The issue is clinical (mental health, trauma, addiction).
  • You feel out of your depth.
  • Progress has stalled despite your best efforts.
  • The person expresses harm to self or others.

How to implement

  1. Normalize it: “This is something a lot of people seek support for.”
  2. Be compassionate: “You don’t have to go through this alone.”
  3. Have resources ready: Provide reputable, accessible options.
  4. Follow up appropriately: Check in without crossing professional lines.

Activity – Build Your Referral List

Create a list of 3–5 trusted local or online professionals or services in the following categories:

  • Mental health
  • Conflict mediation
  • Legal counsel
  • Career coaching
  • Addiction counselling

Ensure you feel confident referring to each and understand their intake process.

Leading with courage and wisdom

  • Immediacy brings truth into the moment.
  • Referral models humility and responsibility.

Great leaders don’t do everything—they discern what needs to be done and by whom.

Next in the series: The beginning of Section Four—Team & Consulting Skills. We’ll explore how to assess team dynamics informally and formally.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

PS. Stay tuned to your opportunity to pre-register for the Online Transformational Leadership Course. That link will be available soon. To bench your (or others) leadership skills, access our Leadership Skills Inventory-Self or LSI-360′.

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Transformational Leadership Series Courageous Conversations: Creating Growth Through Honesty and Story Skills 33 & 34 – Confrontation & Self-Sharing https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-courageous-conversations-creating-growth-through-honesty-and-story-skills-33-34-confrontation-self-sharing/ Mon, 18 Aug 2025 17:30:10 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=24002 Transformational leaders don’t sidestep the hard stuff—they handle it with courage and care. Two coaching skills make that possible: Confrontation – naming self-defeating behaviour so growth can begin. Self-Sharing – offering relevant stories from your own journey to spark insight in others. Used together, they keep relationships truthful, human and forward-moving. Skill 33 – Confrontation Definition: Facilitating self-reflection […]

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Transformational leaders don’t sidestep the hard stuff—they handle it with courage and care. Two coaching skills make that possible:

  • Confrontation – naming self-defeating behaviour so growth can begin.
  • Self-Sharing – offering relevant stories from your own journey to spark insight in others.

Used together, they keep relationships truthful, human and forward-moving.

Skill 33 – Confrontation

Definition: Facilitating self-reflection by helping people see behaviours, attitudes or blind spots that are holding them (and the team) back.

Why it matters

  • Unaddressed issues erode trust, performance and culture.
  • Most people can’t see their own blind spots.
  • When truth is delivered with respect, people feel valued—not attacked.

How to implement

  1. Check motive: Is my goal to help, not to win?
  2. Describe behaviour, not identity: “I’ve noticed deadlines are slipping,” not “You’re unreliable.”
  3. Share impact: “When reports are late, the whole project stalls.”
  4. Invite reflection: “What do you think is causing this?”
  5. Offer support: “How can I help you succeed?”

Practice exercise

Pair role-play – One person practices a 2-minute confrontation using the steps above; the partner provides feedback on clarity, tone and empathy.

Authors Note: This is one of the most difficult skills for me to implement – even though I am naturally direct and seen as a courageous person. Growing up my family had lots of conflict and we survived by avoiding and hiding. So when I got into business leadership it took every ounce of fortitude to follow through and implement this step. If you are hesitant to lean into this skill – I encourage you to look deeper to discover any potential reason why you are avoiding confrontations or difficult conversations.

Skill 34 – Self-Sharing

Definition: Offering brief, purposeful stories from your own experience to help others gain perspective and hope.

Why it matters

  • Builds credibility: “You’ve walked this path.”
  • Normalizes struggle and failure.
  • Shows the learner a concrete example of resilience or change.

How to implement

  1. Keep it relevant: The story must connect to their challenge.
  2. Stay concise: 2–3 minutes, highlight the lesson.
  3. Focus on learning, not ego: Centre the takeaway, not your heroics.
  4. Bridge back: “What parallels do you see with your situation?”

Practice exercise

Write a short story using the template:

  1. Situation: Where were you stuck?
  2. Struggle: What made it hard?
  3. Shift: What insight or action changed things?
  4. Success/lesson: How did it turn out, and what can others learn?

Share it with a peer; ask if the lesson felt clear and helpful.

Authors Note: As a professional speaker, coach, mentor and trainer I have found that personal stories that related to issue at hand are very powerful and impactful. In fact, stories are remembered far more than most talking points.

Working in tandem

  1. Confrontation opens the door by naming the issue.
  2. Self-Sharing shows a path forward through relatable example.

Together they create a safe, honest space where people can face reality and believe change is possible.

Next in the series: Skill 35 (Immediacy) & Skill 36 (Referral) – knowing when to speak up in the moment and when to call in outside help.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

PS. Stay tuned to your opportunity to pre-register for the Online Transformational Leadership Course. That link will be available soon. To bench your (or others) leadership skills, access our Leadership Skills Inventory-Self or LSI-360′.

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Transformational Leadership Series From Vision to Execution: Making Progress Practical Skills 31 & 32: Action Planning & Implementing Action Plans https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-from-vision-to-execution-making-progress-practical-skills-31-32-action-planning-implementing-action-plans/ Tue, 05 Aug 2025 00:57:55 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=23956 Clarity without execution is like a map without a traveler. In the coaching and supervisory context, the ability to help others turn their goals into practical, actionable steps is critical. Once individuals take ownership of their goals, the next steps involve building a clear path forward (Skill 31: Action Planning) and guiding consistent implementation (Skill […]

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Clarity without execution is like a map without a traveler. In the coaching and supervisory context, the ability to help others turn their goals into practical, actionable steps is critical. Once individuals take ownership of their goals, the next steps involve building a clear path forward (Skill 31: Action Planning) and guiding consistent implementation (Skill 32: Implementing Action Plans).

This is where real transformation begins—moving from insight and intention into daily behavior and outcomes.

Skill 31: Action Planning

Definition: Exploring and evaluating specific pathways and steps required for achieving goals, and developing effective action plans.

Action planning is the bridge between “I want to” and “I will.” Transformational leaders work with individuals to break their goals into manageable parts—assigning priorities, identifying resources, and creating accountability.

Why It Matters

A well-crafted action plan:

  • Turns large, intimidating goals into achievable milestones
  • Identifies obstacles and required supports ahead of time
  • Improves clarity, confidence, and follow-through
  • Ensures alignment between personal development and strategic objectives

Without a plan, even highly motivated individuals will likely lose momentum.

How to Implement

  • Break it down: Convert each goal into steps and stages.
  • Timeline mapping: Define clear timelines and deadlines for each step.
  • Assign accountability: Who will do what? When? With whom?
  • Identify barriers and supports: What might get in the way—and what will help?
  • Visualize success: Use tools like Gantt charts, checklists, or tracking dashboards if helpful.

Practice Exercise

Action Plan Template:

  1. Goal:
  2. Step 1 – First Action:
  3. Deadline for Step 1:
  4. Support/Resources Needed:
  5. Potential Obstacles & Mitigation Strategy:
  6. Next Steps:
  7. Success Indicator/Tracking Method:

Have the participant complete this in a coaching or team development session. Revisit regularly.

Authors Note: Today with AI there are several options that are emerging when you can use an AI app to be part of the planning, accountability, implementation tracking and reminder to your goals. Do your own research to find the best solution for you.

Skill 32: Implementing Action Plans

Definition: Increase the success rate of goal achievement through easy-to-follow, detailed instructions which include follow-up, coaching, and support.

Creating a plan is only half the battle. As a coach or supervisor, your role is to help individuals build momentum and stay accountable to their commitments. Implementation is the real test of leadership—where follow-through determines whether the vision becomes reality.

Why It Matters

Even the best plans fail without consistent action and feedback. Implementation is where:

  • Leaders build habits that lead to results
  • Course corrections can be made in real time
  • Accountability strengthens confidence and competence
  • Progress becomes visible, measurable, and motivating

How to Implement

  • Follow-up consistently: Weekly or biweekly check-ins reinforce accountability.
  • Celebrate wins: Even small achievements should be acknowledged.
  • Adjust the plan as needed: Plans aren’t rigid—they’re responsive.
  • Coach through setbacks: Use missed deadlines or obstacles as coaching moments.
  • Use visual tracking: A visible progress chart or tracker keeps the plan top of mind.

Practice Exercise

Weekly Implementation Review:
Ask participants or team members to reflect each week:

  1. What did I commit to doing this week?
  2. What did I complete?
  3. What didn’t get done and why?
  4. What is my next step?
  5. What support do I need?

This review process not only improves performance but builds self-leadership and trust.

From Paper (including digital) to Progress

Action Planning is the blueprint. Implementing Action Plans is the build. In the coaching and leadership process, these two skills drive real-world change—taking the clarity of defined goals and shaping daily behaviors that align with success.

With the right support, structure, and accountability, leaders can help individuals move forward with confidence and consistency.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

PS. Stay tuned to your opportunity to pre-register for the Online Transformational Leadership Course. That link will be available soon. To bench your (or others) leadership skills, access our Leadership Skills Inventory-Self or LSI-360′.

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Transformational Leadership Series From Clarity to Commitment: Turning Insight into Action Skills 29 & 30: Goal-Setting & Goal Ownership https://crgleader.com/transformational-leadership-series-from-clarity-to-commitment-turning-insight-into-action-skills-29-30-goal-setting-goal-ownership/ Fri, 25 Jul 2025 19:30:15 +0000 https://crgleader.com/?p=23919 Once a problem is clearly defined and ownership is established, the next move is forward. That means translating the challenge into a desired future state—and then taking steps to get there. In this article, we explore Skill 29: Goal-Setting and Skill 30: Goal Ownership, helping leaders guide others through the transformation from “what is” to “what could be.” […]

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Once a problem is clearly defined and ownership is established, the next move is forward. That means translating the challenge into a desired future state—and then taking steps to get there. In this article, we explore Skill 29: Goal-Setting and Skill 30: Goal Ownership, helping leaders guide others through the transformation from “what is” to “what could be.”

These two skills are especially vital in coaching and supervisory roles, where development, growth, and performance improvement are ongoing expectations.

Skill 29: Goal-Setting

Definition: Identify specific, realistic, and motivating outcomes with timelines that support the organization’s and your mission, vision, and values.

Transformational leaders know that generic intentions (“I want to improve”) rarely lead to change. Instead, meaningful progress comes from  PACT – Purpose, Actionable, Continuous, Trackable  goals that align with an individual’s values and the organization’s broader purpose.

In a coaching or supervisory context, goal-setting isn’t just about task completion—it’s about defining success in a way that’s motivating and directional.

Why It Matters

Without clear goals, individuals lack focus, accountability, and direction. Setting effective goals:

  • Boosts motivation
  • Creates a sense of purpose
  • Provides a roadmap for success
  • Encourages alignment between individual development and organizational strategy

How to Implement

  • Start with “why”: Help individuals understand the purpose behind each goal and how it aligns with their values and role.
  • Use PACT criteria: Guide the individual in setting Purposeful, Actionable, Continuous and Trackable goals.
  • Break large goals into steps: Create short-term objectives that build confidence and momentum.
  • Tie goals to the bigger picture: Ensure the goals support both personal development and the organization’s mission and values.

Practice Exercise

Goal Design Template:
Have the participant complete the following:

  1. Goal Statement: What do I want to achieve?
  2. Why is this important to me?
  3. How will I know I’ve achieved it? (Measures)
  4. What resources/support do I need?
  5. Timeline or milestones:
  6. Alignment check: How does this goal align with our mission/vision/values?

Skill 30: Goal Ownership

Definition: Able to assume responsibility for taking action and achieving objectives, and capable of helping others do the same.

Once goals are defined, transformational leaders ensure that individuals own them—not just in words, but in follow-through. Ownership is the bridge between ideas and outcomes. It requires personal accountability, self-leadership, and often, the courage to navigate obstacles without waiting for permission.

In coaching, this means moving from “we talked about this” to “you committed to this.”

Why It Matters

Great goals with no follow-through are worse than no goals at all—they foster disappointment and distrust. When individuals own their goals:

  • They take initiative and act without constant prompting
  • They’re more resilient when obstacles appear
  • They’re invested in the outcome, not just compliant with expectations

How to Implement

  • Set clear commitments: Document who will do what by when. Be specific.
  • Use accountability checkpoints: Regular check-ins keep goals visible and progress measurable.
  • Celebrate progress and reflect on setbacks: Ownership means learning from both.
  • Challenge excuses gently: Reframe obstacles as learning opportunities and invite reflection.
  • Ask commitment questions: “On a scale of 1–10, how committed are you to this goal?” Follow up with, “What would move that number closer to a 10?”

Practice Exercise

Commitment Contract:
After setting the goal, ask the coachee or employee to write a brief commitment statement including:

  • The goal
  • Why they own it
  • What they will do to stay accountable
    Have them share this with their coach or supervisor and revisit it regularly.

Moving from Planning to Progress

Goal-Setting defines the path. Goal Ownership ensures that someone is walking it. Together, these skills are the heartbeat of effective coaching and leadership—translating insight into inspired action.

As a transformational leader, your ability to help others set meaningful goals and follow through on them is one of your greatest contributions to individual and organizational growth.

Next, we’ll explore Skill 31: Action Planning and Skill 32: Implementing Action Plans—the hands-on mechanics of moving goals into day-to-day activity.

Until next time, Keep Living On Purpose!

PS. Stay tuned to your opportunity to pre-register for the Online Transformational Leadership Course. That link will be available soon. To bench your (or others) leadership skills, access our Leadership Skills Inventory-Self or LSI-360′.

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